The Process
Whether you are choosing to be on the brink of a brilliant future or you have had your future forced upon you, change can be scary.
You are on the threshold, the brink of something big. You know you need to move forward but you are stuck and you can't go back. You need a way forward, a step by step guide and a safe way to get to the good stuff that you know (or hope) is beyond what you are going through now.
Let the True Courage Coach show you the way.
This is how we do it - by answering five simple questions and then putting it all together in a practical format for you:
1. Why me? Why this? Why now? (OK, I cheated that's 3 questions in one)
This is where we look at what's going on, how you got where you are, and who you are you anyway. And why you're worried about it.
Just putting words to the landscape you find yourself in can be reassuring. You are not mad or bad, life is behaving in strange ways for you at the moment.
Whether because you've got a wonderful opportunity but are rigid with fear. Or you are facing a catastrophic life change and are rigid with fear. Wherever the fear is coming form it is topping you from moving forward. We CAN deal with it and this is the first step - finding out where you are.
2. Where's the loss?
There's always a loss when a big change occurs, even when it's a change we want. Great new lover? - but what about your old friends and lifestyle. Super new job? - but what about the old me (and your friends and lifestyle). Great new figure - but do I still have the old me? (and what about your old friends and lifestyle?).
And it's even worse if you have been put in this position by someone else's life change. Redundancy, loss of a relationship, loss of dependent children - all are losses that we may have to mourn. And you need a safe space to do this in.
We look at what you are leaving behind, what you can take with you and allow you to say goodbye and honour your old life. Even, perhaps, look on the bright side (the repressed optimist in me loves finding silver linings in clouds and sixpences in puddles).
3. What's the chaos?
There'll be either a chaos of a void. When people are going through these transition processes they may describe as like being in the middle of a hurricane. Or like a white-out in Alaska. You may not know which way is up (and I can give you a great trick for finding out). And you may alternate between swirling chaos and a void, a blank, nothingness.
Some people spend their whole lives not even getting to step one because they know THIS step will be challenging. And again, you need a safe space to be in it. As I show you how to BE in this space I will guide you through it.
And pretty soon, you'll be getting the inklings that will take you to the next step.
4. Who's the future? (subtitle - who's the daddy now?)
Now this is where it gets to be real fun. All the hopes and dreams and wishes that you've had will start to take form and you'll KNOW it is possible. It is SO EXCITING! It's a fantastic great place to be and I know because I have done it.
And you may have encountered some of this stuff before. Dreaming, drawing, creating, gurus and guides.
Amping up your roles (who do you REALLY want to be?), putting chutzpah into your charisma ( you'll have LOADS of charisma by now), claiming our courage, power and freedom so you can really strut your stuff.
5. How fantastic can it get?
Phew!!! Now you get to put it all together.
You need the right environment for this amount of sparkling life and we show you how to fit it all together. Step by step, or leap by leap, by now you'll know how you want it to go. And when you've got the practicalities in place you'll launch yourself, I won't be able to hold you back!
And that's great, I will have done my job. Just send me a postcard from wherever you are in your new life because I LOVE to share in your success!
How do I get started?
If you want to ditch your fear, find your courage and move forward into the brilliant future that is waiting for you, schedule a FREE (my gift to you) Discover Your Courage Call with me here.
This call is guaranteed to take you from "Oh No!" to "YES! YES!"
Liz
